Thursday, May 12, 2011

The differences between Good and Bad

1.主导权
  好男人:心甘情愿的被女人主导
  坏男人:永远主导者,决定大部分的事物
  
2.自信心
  好男人:缺乏自信,做事情畏畏缩缩,不敢前进
  坏男人:充满自信的男人才有绝对吸引女人的人格魅力
  
3.神秘感
  好男人:在女人面前如同白纸,什么东西都告诉女人,包括家里养了几只狗,那只会让女人更快的失去兴趣
  坏男人:追求女人时要保持神秘感,越神秘的越让女人有兴趣去探知
  
4.原则性
  好男人:在和女人交往的时候没有原则什么都听女的
  坏男人:坚定自己的原则立场,这样才能体现男人魅力,才能得到女孩子的喜爱
  
5.态度
  好男人:特别在意女人对他的态度
  坏男人:把女人的负面态度甚者批评全部当成耳边风,不理会不在乎
  
6.自我优势
  好男人:畏畏缩缩,不敢在女人面前表现,错失吸引女生的机会。
  坏男人:一开始就展现才能,赢得女人心,免得错失良机
  
7.男人的外貌
  好男人:自以为外貌吸引女人的主要因素,女人不喜欢我是因为我不够帅
  坏男人:相信自信,幽默的人格魅力才是赢得女人心的关键所在。
  
8.付出的代价
  好男人:对女人无怨无悔的付出,不求回报
  坏男人:不做没有效益的付出,干任何事情都是有代价的。
  
9.绝对要爱自己
  好男人:相信要爱别人比爱自己多,把女人的的喜怒哀乐放第一
  坏男人:爱自己多与爱别人,自己开心最重要
  
10.礼节
  好男人:太礼貌,感觉像活在古代
  坏男人:保持应有的礼貌和绅士风度,但从来不会拘束
  
11.控制力
  好男人:处于被控制的弱者,处处让着女人
  坏男人:懂的女人是真正喜欢是对她有控制力的男人,
  
12.察言观色
  好男人:不懂技巧,常常做了不该做的事情
  坏男人:懂得见机行事,知道什么时候该做什么事情
  
13.甜言蜜语
  好男人:经常说大实话,容易惹女人生气
  坏男人:懂得多用嘴巴的功能,让女人神魂颠倒,心甘情愿
  
14.识别陷阱
  好男人:容易被女生牵着走,对方稍微善意的响应一下,就以为自己有希望,然后义无反顾被“利用”而不自知
  坏男人:相信和女孩子相处时,不把她说的好话全当真,还要小心对方设下让他成为好人的陷阱。
  
15.碰到阻碍
  好男人:发现自己喜欢的女人有男朋友,马上放弃,或者痴心等待。
  坏男人:发现对方有男朋友根本不在乎(结婚除外),在乎的是自己是否真的需要她。
  
16.谁对谁错
  好男人:被女人拒绝时,相信一定是自己哪里做错了。
  坏男人:一定都是对方的问题。
  
17.表白
  好男人:喜欢用言语表白
  坏男人:几乎不表白,懂得吸引女人,自然水到渠成
  
18.面对失败
  好男人:整天浑浑噩噩,不知所措,对生活失去希望
  坏男人:泡妞是一种态度,胜败乃兵家常事,会从失败中吸取教训并找方法改变,以免下次再犯。继续寻找下一段恋情
  
19.追求女生松懈的心理
  好男人:找到一个心爱的女人后,她就是我的了自己就可以松懈了。
  坏男人:恋爱是需要技巧,不到最后都不完全放松。
  
20.吸引力(最重要的)
  好男人:没吸引力
  坏男人:强大的吸引力让女人欲罢不能

gg xD

Friday, May 6, 2011

exam days

3 down, 2 more to go.
3 hard subjects were done, 2 easier one, no mood to study.
at this moment, keep think of something.. something about life.
life is so unfair.
some people are born to be rich.
some people are born to be good looking.
yet people in this world are realistic.
rich and good looking owned.
those who are poor and not good looking lost their advantages since they born.
why is it so?
no why, just fact,reality.
no wonder plastic surgery is getting famous and normal nowadays. thats why people willing to spend so much money and endurance of pain to accept the operation. yeah maybe it is kind of long term investment.

what about study?
im so lost now. what is the point of studying? for exam or for knowledge?
for me, knowledge. but the environment are corrupting the real value of study. forcing us to study for exams. people say you will get rich someday if you found a good job with your good result. let's compare..
1. born to be rich, enjoying everything without working hard on studying.
2. good looking one get higher pay or higher probability in getting hired although their result is not good like others.
3. strive hard in study, but not a must you may get good job and rich.

yeah this is life, unfair. rich and good-looking go first before everything.

perhaps besides studying there are something more important that we should do..tell me what is that. tell me the meaning of life, why are we living? to follow the human flow- being a baby, schooling, uni, get into society and work, retired and buy coffin?
FML